In general,the rule by davening is that it is better to say less with more concentration than more (davening) with less (concentration). In practical terms, a man should find a Shul in which he can daven everything without rushing. A woman davening at home should remember this rule, and follow it.
BTYA has prepared a short guide for women that outlines the order of priority for Tefilla when time is short. You can download it from the link on the right side of www.btya.org.
Nadav, Avihu, and other leaders of K’llal Yisrael were deserving of punishment at mattan Torah for behaving disrespectfully at the place of the Shechinah (see Shemos 24:11,with Rashi).
And you are still talking in Shul?